I once threw a party with this theme that I acquired while attending college.  All of the guests were single women dressed in black.  I had artificial roses spray painted black and learned how to decorate candles while watching HGTV.  I also used oranges as candles; place toothpicks inside of the skin and core out a small spot on the top for a tea light candle.  Each guest received a large red coffee mug as a gift.  There was one room filled with “items” from a local vendor.  I treated myself to some very nice “pajamas”.  There was dark chocolate for dessert, along with a nice large cake in the shape of what all of us were missing.  Bubbly flew at will.  We ate, talked, laughed and even participated in a raffle for silly prizes.  Always find a reason to smile:0